So, if you are not familiar with my background… once upon a
time I was hit by lightning. No,
seriously. I was. Now I will spare you the details but needless
to say that meant a lot of time for me in and out of hospitals for various
tests, overnight stays, check-ups and routines.
August of this year will mark 10 years since my unfortunate accident,
but there are many things that will remain with me forever.
The events of the day leading up to and including that
fateful evening are fuzzy as well as many of the things immediately following. So what do I remember? I remember having some of the most amazing
healthcare providers for one of the darkest times in my life. The struggle with seizure activity, memory
loss, depression and weight gain was overwhelming and each trip to the hospital
made me feel like I was losing complete control of my life. I could have easily slipped through the
cracks and been resigned to being a medicated mess. But I wasn’t.
No matter how bad I felt, how out of it I was or how cranky I could get,
there was always a nursing smiling back at me and telling me it was going to be
OK. They were always there with
blankets, food, or just a soothing touch and gentle smile to help me make it
through. I was granted a second chance,
a new outlook and a fresh start after all I went through and there was a nurse
there every step of the way.
While I did not have to face certain death, many of those I’ve
loved in my life have. My life changing
event came a few months after losing my aunt Angie.
She lost her 6 year battle with breast cancer at the age of 34. She spent the last year of her life medicated
and spent the last few months of her life in the care of a Hospice Nurse. In the late stages of her illness, as she
suffered the debilitating effects of brain tumors, she would often act out or
imagine that her nurse was there to hurt her, steal her husband, steal her son
or numerous other things. It was
heartbreaking to watch and I struggled so much with realizing it wasn’t really
her saying all of those things. Despite experiencing
the yelling, the anger, and the deterioration of my aunt before her eyes, that
nurse was by her side attending to her every need. How one person could endure all of that and
remain so strong was mind blowing. To
spend week in and week out watching people pass on and yet giving each and every
one of them everything they could was the way of a hospice nurse. Being there when all other hope was lost and
giving the dying their dignity even in their final days was their way of
life.
When my mother was facing cancer and chemotherapy and
radiation and needles galore, it was a nurse whose caring hand held hers
through the treatments and the tears. When
my father was nearly killed in an industrial accident, it was a nurse who
helped him get up out of bed every morning and held his hand as he slowly began
to walk again. When all seems lost or
when we receive devastating news, it’s the nurses who are there to catch our
tears and pick up the pieces.
I spend my days teaching future nurses, and I see the
compassion, the dedication and the love it takes to care for the ill and even
the dying. So this week, I raise my
water bottle high to all of the nurses who devote their lives to others. I advocate being proactive with your health
and taking control of what you can, but accidents happen and you never know
what life will throw your way. This
week, I am thankful that if/when the time comes that I must go to a doctor’s
office or a hospital that there will be a nurse ready and willing to devote
their time and energy into helping me get better.
This week, we celebrate National Nurses Week. We celebrate those who devote their lives to
being compassionate, caring, and loving to those they barely know. We celebrate the long nights, endless
rotations, and many sacrifices nurses make in order to make our illness just a
tiny bit more bearable. It truly is
something to be celebrated.
Say thank you to the nurses in your life and if you are a nurse, give
yourself a huge pat on the back. You
deserve it.
**I also dedicate this post in loving memory of my late aunt Amy who tragically lost her life in an automobile accident at the age of 31. She devoted her life to being a Hospice Nurse and she is truly missed.**
Nice post, Tiffinator :-)
ReplyDeleteI must say what a terrific tribute to nurses! Most of the nurses that I myself have worked with over the years have realized how much nursing can change your life. It has been known and always known as a "thankless" profession. But a true calling to really become a nurse is a personal growth physically, mentally and spiritually! After all to be whole patient again is to be able to treat the whole patient. Mind, body and soul! Once every so many of years a special article is published such as this one has. The feeling of any gratitude from any patient or their family is a great consultation! Truly to be noted as a "thank you" to all nurses brings tears of joy to my eyes! After all of these years in nursing at least a person has be kind enough to smile and say "thank you." Nursing has been good to me and I will always love what I do being a nurse!! And to all my fellow colleagues "happy international nurses week" I salute each and everyone of you and I will say "thank you." Barbara Simpson CCLPN
ReplyDeleteAweee so sweet <3
ReplyDeleteThanks for all of the kind commentary ladies... and thank you for being awesome nurses and future nurses :)
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